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Unveiled
Welcome to UNVEILED, the podcast designed for women ready to break free from the confines of societal expectations and rediscover their authentic selves.
I’m your host, Angela Marie Christian, Silicon Valley CFO turned intuitive, clinical hypnotherapist, and conscious mother.
If you've ever felt trapped by the roles imposed upon you—whether as a mother, a professional, or simply as a woman navigating life—this podcast offers a space to explore, heal, and transform. I was once deeply entrenched in the corporate world, checking all the boxes society told me to. But after realizing that true fulfillment comes from within, not from external achievements, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery that changed my life. Now, I’m here to guide you on your own path to empowerment.
We dive deep into conversations that strip away the layers of limiting beliefs and societal programming that have kept you from living a life of true sovereignty. Using neuroprogramming techniques such as ____, we explore how to rewire your mind, break old patterns, and embrace your innate power from within. These intimate conversations are more than just talks—they’re a catalyst for change, designed to energize and inspire you to take actionable steps toward your desires, goals, and dreams. Whether you’re a mother feeling unfulfilled, a single woman seeking more, or anyone looking to ignite that inner spark, UNVEILED is here to remind you of the incredible power you hold within. Join me weekly for conversations that feel like connecting with a close friend—conversations that will leave you inspired, empowered, and ready to unveil your true self.
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Through intimate, connected conversations, we explore practical tools for managing anxiety, stress, and the exhaustion of burnout. You'll learn to challenge negative thoughts, dissolve limiting beliefs, and build unwavering self-confidence. We dive deep into mindfulness practices, cultivating self-love, and the power of neuroprogramming techniques to rewire your mindset. Each episode empowers you to embrace your true self, reclaim your sovereignty, and reignite the spark within that leads to a more fulfilled, purpose-driven life.
Whether you’re struggling to balance the demands of motherhood, work, and personal growth, or you’re on a path to healing and self-discovery, Unveiled offers a compassionate and supportive community. Here, we validate your experiences, nurture your resilience, and inspire you to take action toward your desires, goals, and dreams. Join us weekly to unveil your true self, transform your life, and step into your power.
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Fair Exchange in Everyday Life: How Balance Shapes Love, Money, and Freedom
Ever noticed that feeling of giving too much and receiving too little? This is what happens when we're out of fair exchange - and it affects everything from our relationships to our bank accounts.
Fair exchange isn't just about money - it's the fundamental energetic balance between what we give and receive in all situations. When we perceive imbalance, our electromagnetic field broadcasts this perception, attracting more situations that mirror our internal state. That's why you might find yourself with partners who don't value your contribution, friends who drain your energy, or financial opportunities that consistently undervalue your worth.
The game-changing insight? Fair exchange operates from the inside out. You don't need external validation or compensation to balance the scales. By finding the value in every exchange - whether it's a lesson learned, personal growth, or a boundary you now know to set - you shift your energy field. This internal balancing act ripples outward, transforming how the world responds to you.
Your physical body is constantly signaling where you're out of balance. Those digestive issues, that unexplained stomach pain? They might be your body's way of showing you're holding onto past grievances or guilt.
Children and pets mirror our imbalances too, offering us opportunities to heal before these patterns become embedded in their own lives.
Ready to transform your experience? Start noticing how you feel after conversations and interactions. Are you depleted or energized? Did you feel heard and valued? By consciously balancing these everyday exchanges, you'll gradually rewire your field to attract more abundance, respect, and harmony. Your internal sense of fairness creates your external reality - what will you create?
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Welcome to Unveiled the podcast. I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling your true self by peeling away the layers that society placed on you. I do this with a combination of neuroscience, energetics and ancient spiritual wisdom. I went from underpaid and overworked in corporate America to launching a six-figure company that continues to grow. I went from toxic relationships to being happy and single for over a year as I worked and continue to work on becoming the best version of myself, and so much more. My greatest passion is to help women and mothers heal, transform and become the highest versions of themselves. Heal, transform and become the highest versions of themselves. As I continue to grow and expand my intuitive knowledge and unique wisdom, I'll be including you on my journey to millions, so let's get into it.
Speaker 2:Hello, welcome back to Unveiled. It might be a little loud in the background because I have, like the AC going, a fan going. It is very hot. So I have a little bit more planned today on this idea around fair exchange in everyday life. So for the last two nights I have had this pretty severe insomnia, which is very uncommon for me. The first night there were a lot of weird things happening in my room and that's a whole different topic.
Speaker 2:But I realized I do these future clearings on myself in terms of like heavy energy, dark energy. I can clear them for 30 days in advance and I had missed the. I'd let the time lapse. So that was a very easy fix there. But then last night I even took these nice relaxing herbs. Was like valerian passion flower.
Speaker 2:I felt very relaxed, but it did not help me sleep, I sense, and like a friend of mine said the same thing before I even mentioned this to her but I have been spending so much time upgrading my intuitive tools, my energy healings, all of that, and spent a really intense time on Sunday learning not just new techniques but also like exciting opportunities that are coming my way, and it's just like I almost feel like I'm getting some kind of software upgrade at the moment and the first night I was pretty annoyed, not gonna lie, which doesn't help, right. So last night I was like, okay, speaking of fair exchange and everyday life, topic of our podcast. First I just needed to neutralize it, because when you are having insomnia or having any type of sleep issue, getting upset about it is not going to help you rest and sleep right, so the least that we can do is just lay there and relax. There was a little bit more to it as well my mom's dog, who she and I the dog and I have a very deep bond and whenever she's hurt she wants to sleep with me, which doesn't happen very often. But yesterday she hurt, like one of her little toenails fell off and it was bleeding and she came over to me and I did some healing work on her just to help her with the pain, her just to help her with the pain, because our animals, like our children up to age seven, are literally our helpers and they will show us imbalances in us before we even take them on. And I was thinking about this last night as first she came into my room at midnight and decided to get into my bed and I just kind of laid with her and pet her and told her she would be okay. Then my son comes wandering into my room at 1 am, gets into my bed and he's grinding his teeth which is a reflection for me that I'm resolving at the moment and I just, instead of getting upset, I just laid there and I was like you know what, how cool is it that our children and it's sad that a lot of people don't know this, but hopefully that will change Our children, from ages zero to seven, they are sponges, right?
Speaker 2:They're soaking up all of our beliefs, all of our. They're watching us, they learn by watching us. So even if you're telling them, do this, but you're doing something else, they're going to copy what you're doing, right? It seems very logical, but most people just don't realize that. They think, oh well, if I just tell them to do differently, they will, and that's not how it works. But also are here to help us. So much, from ages zero to seven, they show us where we're out of balance.
Speaker 2:And the thing is and this is what I was thinking about last night when my son was grinding his teeth he will be six in October and I'm like I need to shift these reflections that he's taking on for me, because once they get between seven to nine, if we haven't shifted them, they can very well carry them on and embody them, and then it becomes their stuff, and it wasn't even their stuff to begin with, right? So animals and children, they're just so special and they're here to help us, and I hope someday every parent will be able to see children's, you know, when they're acting out all of this stuff, it's not them, it's actually the parent. So I've talked about this before. I'm not going to go too much into that today because it's not what it's about, but I just wanted to share that thought because for those of you with little ones but we do need to shift our imbalances so they don't take them on right. So, now that you know that, let's start shifting. Okay, so, speaking of fair exchange and this is one of the reasons why I'm dealing with insomnia at the moment my mentor, alessandro, told me on Friday that I need to, on Friday that I need to start dating, which I haven't.
Speaker 2:Probably sounds funny to anyone who doesn't know the background, but I haven't dated in over two years, like physically gone on dates. I've chatted with people but no dates. I just haven't felt the desire to to be honest dates. I just haven't felt the desire to to be honest, and I know that there's someone that will be coming into my life in the next couple of years and I just really wanted to wait until that happened.
Speaker 2:But basically my mentor was like I asked him I'm like, can I just stay single until? And I already knew the answer, but I just sometimes it's like when you know, you know what a parent is going to say, but you just want them to say it. It's kind of like that situation. So I was like, can I just stay single until he arrives? And my mentor was like no, you need practice. Practice meaning communication, boundary setting, like all of those things that I have not been good at in the past. So it doesn't have to be any kind of major relationship or anything but just practicing like I've my tools that I have now versus two years ago are it's like a completely different person right? So the tools I have now, if I had applied them to past relationships, they like I wasn't supposed to be with any of them, obviously, but like things could have been a little bit different or things would have been handled better. All of that right Now that I know what I know, and so it makes sense that before you meet your soulmate or if you're in this world, you'll know the term soul compliment Before you meet your soulmate or soul compliment, there is a level of integration with tools and all of that that you have to bring to the table to get an alignment with that.
Speaker 2:So one of the things I've been doing for my clients recently is reading their soul contracts and I can tell, like when someone's contract has expired with their partner or, you know, if there's always between two people, there are pieces of the contract that need to be fulfilled and that and some are optional. So I did a contract read for someone last week and I could see that their contract had expired but there was still a lesson that they needed to learn. So it can get a little complicated, but essentially I know that I have a contract with someone at a certain time but I need to be in alignment with that, meaning my tools, my communication, all of that needs to be in alignment for that to happen and sustain the relationship. So when my mentor told me, my immediate reaction was like ugh, and then I just was very much like stomping my feet, not wanting to do it. And then I mentioned it to an intuitive friend and she was like, oh yeah, you're just not wanting to do the things that are good for you. And I was like, damn, that is so true.
Speaker 2:And then enter the insomnia issues right Again, showing me that I'm not wanting to do the things that are good for me to do, like sleep, because sleep is so important to me. That reflection is showing up in not being able to sleep in addition to other things. So last night I looked at this and I was like, okay, how can I get this into fair exchange? Because fair exchange is literally the key to like living the life that you want to live. But most people like, as humans, we get used to carrying heavy stuff for so long that we forget what it's like to walk without it. It's like hiking with a huge backpack full of rocks. If you do that every day for 30 days and you never take that backpack off, pretty soon it's just going to feel normal and you're going to forget what it's like to hike without that backpack full of rocks, right? So being out of fair exchange is like having a weight on your back, on your nervous system, on your energy, but we don't notice it because it just becomes normal. So fair exchange is the balance between what you give and what you receive in all situations. When you can see the fair exchange in everything, that's when the weight comes off of your back, out of your subconscious mind, out of your field, out of your life. Right, and it's not just about thoughts, it's much bigger than that. It affects our electromagnetic field, our creator field, which is constantly broadcasting and attracting matter, people, situations, circumstances. It controls everything.
Speaker 2:So when we're out of fair exchange and let's say we feel like things are just unfair, right, everywhere we go it's unfair, then what will? How will that show up in a real romantic relationship? It might show up as a partner who says like I do so much more for you than you do for me. It might show up in getting underpaid. It might show up in friendships where you just don't feel valued. You feel really drained. The unfairness you feel inside is creating the unfairness that you're seeing on the outside. So I had a client last week who her partner had been cheating on her right and this partner she had trusted, she had given her heart to this partner, even though she was hesitant to open up. So there was a little piece inside of her that felt unsafe when she found out about her partner's cheating right cheating right. Not surprisingly, in the week following, she attracted several unfair, unsafe situations in the outside, because our internal world will create the outside. That's why we have to balance these fair exchange moments as soon as possible, so that we don't create what we don't want to create.
Speaker 2:Right and fair exchange is not just about money. It's literally about everything. It's about your relationships, your health, your future. So an example of this would be like leaving a conversation, or even if you do, like client sessions or something, and you think, oh my God, I gave way too much there, right? The second you think something like that there needs to be the moment of wait. What did I actually learn? Well, maybe you gave too much, or maybe your prices need to be increased, or maybe you need to be clearer on your sales page, maybe you need to communicate better with your clients or friends, or whatever it might be right.
Speaker 2:There's always some kind of lesson that we can pull to make it a fair exchange when we hold on to the past of people who wronged us, who owes us, how unfair this person was, and then also obviously like the guilt that we carry around things we've done to other people. This will manifest in digestive issues, nausea, bloating, constipation, excess weight in the stomach area. All of that is your body's way of telling you you are beating yourself up about the past. You are focusing too much on the past. Let's get this clear right. There's a little bit more and it's obviously very specific to each person. Like if it's my client, I can look at and see immediately what's going on.
Speaker 2:But in general, if you have like anytime I get which this was just last week I had two days where my stomach was just like having this weird pain and I didn't change anything in my diet, there wasn't anything I had done. And then I was like, oh, of course I had been going through in my mind, like I had little memories popping up of situations where I had carried guilt and shame. My higher self shows me. I disconnect from those situations, I clear them. There are a few that I did not clear and in the back of my mind I was still beating myself up for these situations. So once I realized that, I cleared it and within minutes, stomachache gone.
Speaker 2:So the good news is you have all the power you can do all of this. The most important thing to remember is fair. Exchange is an inside out game. You don't need to do anything on the outside. You don't need anybody else to change, to apologize, to pay you back any of that. The moment you see the value whether it's lesson that you learned, growth in some way, some kind of notification about oh, maybe I should like set better boundaries, right Then you balance the scales and when you balance the scales, the field shifts. And when the field shifts, people will start treating you differently, and then that allows money to flow in right and the universe just starts responding differently. It is a law. So if you continue holding anger in your body, holding shame in your body, it will show up in your inbox, it will show up in your romantic relationships. But if you hold appreciation and seeing the balance, always the world starts appreciating you. And it's the same with money. Money actually does not have a mind of its own. It listens to the instructions you give it through your field. If you focus on lack, it's going to shrink. If you focus on value, it'll multiply, right.
Speaker 2:So something that you could try doing this week is just notice after every conversation. Ask yourself do I feel like that was a balanced conversation? Do I feel like I gave too much? Do I feel like they were talking over me? Do I feel like they were talking too much? Do I feel like I gave too much? Do I feel like they were talking over me? Do I feel like they were talking too much? Do I feel offended by anything? And just take note of it, balance it as soon as possible and just notice how things start shifting. Or maybe you have friends, like I do, where I leave the conversation feeling so lucky to have friends who get me to feel rich with connection and lucky to be valued and feel extreme love for the relationship. Right, this practice alone will start rewiring your field into one of value.
Speaker 2:It does take time, like people want the overnight success pill or whatever it might be, but even with my timeline healings that I do for people, if someone doesn't change the repetitive thoughts and beliefs, which does take some intention, it can mess with the timeline healing. So when I work with people, it's a partnership right, like I am doing this to help you align with what you desire, but you also have to do the work to seal it. So the whole idea around fair exchange, it's not about keeping score. It's about creating a life and creating relationships and connections and situations where you can feel lighter, freer and you can see the value in it all. Even when you might feel like that was a shitty conversation, you'll actually be able to say, well, was it like you know? And go through some of those questions I shared and balance it out.
Speaker 2:So for me, I've definitely been neutralizing the hesitation I've had around dating and I've just simply taken an action to open my heart to the idea of it. That doesn't mean I have to do any physical action at the moment, but just by saying, okay, higher self, I get it, I I do want to meet my soulmate, right, I want to be in alignment with that, I am on board. So I am opening my heart to this idea of dating and of practicing communication and now I'm actually feeling like, okay, great, I will actually get to put all of my tools into practice, right. So we'll see how my sleep is tonight. I will report back. I know there's a little bit more to it than just that, but I think that will help. So just a little short episode for you guys today, and I always love hearing from you, so let me know your aha moments, let me know how it goes for you.
Speaker 2:If you're able to practice balancing out conversation situations like telephone calls, email exchanges, it's always in balance. Even if you can't see it right away, that's just your human self on an energetic, universal level, it is always in balance. So if you want to dive more into this, I am covering this in my membership. There are three audios already on it, the fourth one coming out this week, and then we're going to continue diving into all things financial mastery in September Perfect time before the holidays to get your energy field flowing and abundant. So have a wonderful week. Bye.
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