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Unveiled
Welcome to UNVEILED, the podcast designed for women ready to break free from the confines of societal expectations and rediscover their authentic selves.
I’m your host, Angela Marie Christian, Silicon Valley CFO turned intuitive, clinical hypnotherapist, and conscious mother.
If you've ever felt trapped by the roles imposed upon you—whether as a mother, a professional, or simply as a woman navigating life—this podcast offers a space to explore, heal, and transform. I was once deeply entrenched in the corporate world, checking all the boxes society told me to. But after realizing that true fulfillment comes from within, not from external achievements, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery that changed my life. Now, I’m here to guide you on your own path to empowerment.
We dive deep into conversations that strip away the layers of limiting beliefs and societal programming that have kept you from living a life of true sovereignty. Using neuroprogramming techniques such as ____, we explore how to rewire your mind, break old patterns, and embrace your innate power from within. These intimate conversations are more than just talks—they’re a catalyst for change, designed to energize and inspire you to take actionable steps toward your desires, goals, and dreams. Whether you’re a mother feeling unfulfilled, a single woman seeking more, or anyone looking to ignite that inner spark, UNVEILED is here to remind you of the incredible power you hold within. Join me weekly for conversations that feel like connecting with a close friend—conversations that will leave you inspired, empowered, and ready to unveil your true self.
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Through intimate, connected conversations, we explore practical tools for managing anxiety, stress, and the exhaustion of burnout. You'll learn to challenge negative thoughts, dissolve limiting beliefs, and build unwavering self-confidence. We dive deep into mindfulness practices, cultivating self-love, and the power of neuroprogramming techniques to rewire your mindset. Each episode empowers you to embrace your true self, reclaim your sovereignty, and reignite the spark within that leads to a more fulfilled, purpose-driven life.
Whether you’re struggling to balance the demands of motherhood, work, and personal growth, or you’re on a path to healing and self-discovery, Unveiled offers a compassionate and supportive community. Here, we validate your experiences, nurture your resilience, and inspire you to take action toward your desires, goals, and dreams. Join us weekly to unveil your true self, transform your life, and step into your power.
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Cash Me Outside: How I Turned Dating Regret into Dollars
Ever wonder why some people seem to attract money effortlessly while others struggle despite working twice as hard? The answer might surprise you.
Wealth blocks often hide in plain sight as innocent-seeming thoughts like "I owe them so much" or "They never paid me back." These aren't just passing notions—they're energetic broadcasts that literally repel money from entering your life. As someone who transformed from corporate burnout to six-figure business owner, I've discovered that resolving these hidden "debts" creates immediate shifts in your financial reality.
In this deeply personal episode, I share how my childhood experiences with guilt-driven relationships shaped my understanding of fair exchange. You'll hear the recent process I played around with to transmute old dating "debt" into an unexpected $4,500 deposit overnight—yes, really! This isn't manifestation mumbo-jumbo; it's about recognizing that on a soul level, we're always in perfect balance, even when our human perception can't see it.
The wealth you desire is already around you, just not always in the form you expect. By identifying where you feel owed or indebted—whether with family, exes, friends, or even credit cards—you can consciously balance these energies and stop broadcasting "debt" to the universe. When you shift from obligation to fair exchange, your entire energetic field transforms from scarcity to abundance.
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Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast. I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling your true self by peeling away the layers that society placed on you. I do this with a combination of neuroscience, energetics and ancient spiritual wisdom. I went from underpaid and overworked in corporate America to launching a six-figure company that continues to grow. I went from toxic relationships to being happy and single for over a year as I worked and continue to work on becoming the best version of myself, and so much more. My greatest passion is to help women and mothers heal, transform and become the highest versions of themselves. As I continue to grow and expand my intuitive knowledge and unique wisdom, I'll be including you on my journey to millions, so let's get into it. Hello, welcome back to Unveiled.
Speaker 1:So today we're going to continue our conversation around money, wealth, all my favorite topics. In case you are new here, I tend to have a theme and then kind of stick with it, or that's what I've been trying to do, just so that it also aligns with, like, whatever I'm diving into in my membership, so that if you like what you hear, then you'll know how to go deeper on the topic, right? So today we're going to talk about the science of fair exchange and, honestly, this was one of the biggest releases for me because I grew up in a household where guilt was like used on the daily. It's still used by one of my family members who I can understand now, like just with the way that I know she grew up. All of that it's her way of having control. So she's very much like I will give you this, but then she very much expects something back, right, it's not unconditional, which I used to get really angry about. But now, knowing about fair exchange and this was something that was just so impactful for me when I worked through it was seeing that the value I got from that is. That's not how I want to be for others, right, because you know a friend will reach out and want help with something. I will help them and I don't expect anything back. A lot of times it's an intuitive friend and they want me to look in at something quickly. And for me, I'm just like, oh, I'm increasing my skills, right, always increasing my skills.
Speaker 1:Or for my children, like my daughter, I support my oldest daughter. She's in her third year of college and she hasn't had to have a job. I've paid for her rent food, with the help of my parents too. So my parents and I have been able to support her fully, which isn't something I got, and I do not expect anything from her in return. If she doesn't want to call me every day, that's okay. I'm not going to put demands on her based on what I'm giving to her, because what I'm giving to her, I see the value in it, because she's not going to come out of school in major debt, right, because I put myself through undergrad school and business school and came out with $200,000 in student loans. So by doing this for her, I know she's having such a big. She's starting off on a much better foot than I did.
Speaker 1:So, if you think about it from this point, what often holds people back from pursuing, like, their biggest dreams and goals? It's usually some type of obligation, right, like I'm a mother, however, that doesn't hold me back, but I do know people who are mothers and feel like they can't put themselves first, even though by putting themselves first and taking that step towards what they're supposed to do will help their children. Right, but that's their lesson to learn. So do obligations. When I say the word obligation, does that sound good? Does that make your body feel good. No, usually it's like one party is satisfied and one's not right. And so if you're sacrificing your purpose for your children, like they're not even asking you to do that right, but like it doesn't feel good in your body, and that's because you're not following the path that your higher self decided to have in this life. So, taking it a step back for years I carried this idea in my body and my energy that I owed my parents because they have helped me so much financially and like with emotional support, all of that, and I was being reminded often about how much they did for me, how much I owed all of that, because I was always thinking about it either consciously or subconsciously, right. So if that's in our thought field, our creator field, they pick up on it. Then it's just going to keep creating more and more debt in your field. So what does true fair exchange look like and again, I'm going to go a lot deeper into all of this and the membership this week but true fair exchange would look like both parties contributing something that is considered equal right.
Speaker 1:It doesn't have to be financial to financial and a lot of times it's not Like. The biggest shifts for me were people who I thought, you know, like I had an ex who had stolen money from me, who had done all of these things, and for a long time I thought, oh, he owes me that money, he owes me that money, he owes me that money that does nothing positive for my creator field, for my financial wealth, right? All it does is it creates, in my field, debt, debt, debt, oh, oh, oh, oh. And because we live in an inside out world I've shared that before, especially around finances and if, for example, if we don't embody the ingredients internally, they're not going to happen externally, right, and what you might not know, you might know from previous episodes, but we actually all, on a high level, share a lot of the same thoughts, and around 96% of people's thoughts aren't even their own. But then there's these massive egos inside most people, right, that want to claim those thoughts as their own. So we are constantly, always broadcasting information out and receiving information, right, our thoughts, right. So it's not a coincidence when you have a thought about something and then someone says, oh, I had the same thought, it's because we're basically just receiving and broadcasting, right.
Speaker 1:So in my earlier days, if I was walking around thinking which I was God. I owe my parents so much money right now. I owe my parents so much money I am in so much debt. The people around me are definitely going to pick up on the subject of my thoughts, which is debt. They might even pick up on I am in debt, but their actions will actually enhance the debt for me. Because if I was going in for a job interview and I was just radiating debt, do you think someone's going to want to hire me? Are they going to feel like I would enhance their company, like they might not be able to put it into words but they're going to have like I don't know something, just felt a little off, right? And same thing if you're going on a date, if you're having all of these debt thoughts in your field, you're not going to feel exactly like you're not going to be radiating your true magnificence, right. You're going to be radiating like debt.
Speaker 1:So when we're out of balance with fair exchange, it causes debt in our field. That triggers debt thoughts and those thoughts create debt actions from other people. Sometimes they'll own them as their own, but most of the time they feed into the debt feelings and thoughts that we're already having. But on a soul level, we're always in balance. There's actually no such thing as being out of fair exchange, and we are in fair exchange immediately. But on a human level, we often can't see that balance and so we carry the guilt, obligation, shame, all of that, and so this ends up poisoning our peace, poisoning our potential and continuing to keep people playing small right.
Speaker 1:So what I'm doing inside of my membership this month is teaching more about the wealth ingredients, all of this fair exchange. I actually teach this in my Clean BDE program as well. It's already in there, because when you're going through a breakup or something and you're feeling like they owe you, that is not going to help your life, right. So I literally have gone through all the people in my life that I can feel like I owe or that they owe me, and I have balanced it out, and my higher self does a great job of showing me where I might have missed something. So I have a funny story to share about this and how I actually turned it into wealth overnight. There might be a little bit more to it there is, but still a fun story.
Speaker 1:So I was driving and the song came on. I don't know why it's always songs for me that like trigger memories. But the song came on and I had this thought about someone who I used to we'll just say date, but that's a pretty loose term for the reality of the situation and it was like, okay, I'm just going to be real with you guys here. So I was a single mom of my oldest daughter and we moved to Marin County, which is a very affluent area right outside of San Francisco, and I moved there to work at a startup company with people I had went to business school with. I thought, okay, this is going to be a great start for me and my daughter.
Speaker 1:I had just ended an engagement to someone, was very sad about all of that and for many, many years I was so out of control boy crazy. I just thought and this was programming. I thought, if I find the right man, I will be able to make a really good life for me and my daughter. Right, it came from a good place, but that is not the way that my soul wanted it to happen. Right? But I had to go through all of that to get to that point of realization like, oh, this actually isn't the way. Yes, it was the way I was shown, but it's not the way that my soul wants me to go right.
Speaker 1:So I started meeting people and started going on dates and fell into this group where there were a lot of impressive guys and they had all went to Ivy League schools and were really good looking, came from good families, and several of them were asking me out around the same time, and so me. Back then I did not know my value at all and I felt like, well, if I say no to one, then I'm going to miss, then I could miss out. You know what if I say yes to this one? But I really should have been dating this one, like I didn't know. I was not in my spiritual era back then, so I just went out with all of them, which of course, did not. It actually reduced my value in their eyes and in my own eyes, right? So anyway, I hadn't really thought about that for a long time because it was a long time ago.
Speaker 1:But one of these guys popped up recently on social media and, as I was driving the other day, just that whole time period of my life came through very clear and I started feeling some shame and embarrassment and like, ugh, cringe, like why did I do that? But then I caught myself and I was like, oh, no, no, okay, this is happening right now, this memory because I haven't quite shifted the balance here, I haven't looked at the fair exchange in these situations, right. So I did that. And then I just started thinking for some reason about this other law, the law of all, and I was like, okay, the wealth we want is always around us. It just might be in different forms than the physical form. Of course we all want the physical wealth form, right. So I was thinking back then. I'm like, okay, I had an abundance of guys, I had an abundance of dating, and all I was actually looking for, if you go to the root, was like security in the form of money, right. So, like here I was trying to find the wealth in these men. But really I could have just if I had known these tools back then, I could have taken all of that and like put it into physical wealth. Right, I didn't know that then, but as I was driving I was like, ooh, okay, let's see if this will work.
Speaker 1:Higher self, I had a lot of guilt and shame around what I did back then. I had an abundance of men. I would like to cash that in into physical wealth. There was a little bit more steps, but those were some of the steps, I kid you not. I woke up the next day with a random $4,500 deposit, like, and I had to immediately tell my friend. I was like Whoa, and she was like, okay, we need to like break this out and figure out exactly what you did so we can replicate that.
Speaker 1:And then, last night, I had another thought. I hadn't been to the gym in a couple of weeks, and before that, though, I had been going very regularly, so I was just looking at my curves and not body shaming myself at all, but I was like, oh, maybe I could cash in these, you know, extra five pounds of unwanted weight into cash. So I did my little steps in a similar way, and I woke up with $250 that I wasn't expecting, like, in addition to other deposits coming in, but it was $250 I wasn't expecting. So I'm definitely onto something there, right, but this is all from playing energy, from fun energy. It's not from walking around with I owe people, people owe me.
Speaker 1:We have to be in balance with literally everyone that we could think that they owe us or that we owe them. So if you're in my membership, I will actually tell you two areas of life where you are currently needing some of this balance. But if you're not, what you can do is just think about, like, where do you still feel like you're owed and why? Who do you feel like you owe? And then how can you start seeing the value, the fair exchange, right, and so I've done this. From family members to exes, to friends, right.
Speaker 1:I had a friend who and this was obviously reflections, craterfield, all of that, but I didn't know all of that at the time, but I felt like she was treating me unfairly and I left the friendship thinking, wow, that was so weird and it just didn't make sense to me. And I kept thinking I did this for her, I did that for her, I did this for her. And then, when I learned about the science of fair exchange, I was like, oh, okay, so she actually taught me a lot, right, and I balanced it out. So your higher self already has like a large number of wealth that it wants you to step into. Your human self just needs to actually step into it. And how do we do that? Many ways, including, you know the knowing, the ingredients to wealth which I taught my membership last week knowing how to balance all of these areas where you could be out of balance in fair exchange, right Getting to the place where you could look at every area of your life and thinking.
Speaker 1:I have always given and received exactly what I needed. Getting away from the thoughts around like I always give more to people in relationships than I get, like what do you think that's going to call in I mean, just from a creator field perspective, that's going to keep calling that in right. Or thoughts like I always get shortchanged or I always get treated unfairly, or whatever it might be. We need to see the value. So if you go through and there's anybody or situations so this can also happen with like loans, bills, credit cards, you can feel out of fair exchange. With credit cards, let's say, you are having trouble paying your bill, or there's actually an investment I made in something that I thought would help me on my soul path, but this was before I really knew what that looked like and it was a large investment and I'm still paying on it and I've caught myself a few times thinking I should never have paid this. And then I'll catch myself and say, no, you absolutely should have. And here's why and I balance it out right Because I did learn valuable lessons. It did help me in different ways than I was expecting.
Speaker 1:So do you feel like you're owed? Do you feel like you owe other people? Just make a list of anywhere you feel like you're owed. Do you feel like you owe other people? Just make a list of anywhere you feel like you're owed or that you owe someone and just start seeing how you can balance it out. And, if you need help, jump into the membership.
Speaker 1:We're going to be diving into this this week because right now, the world really needs next level role models. We are needing like a step above what's already out there. To do that, we do need money, which is a tool, which is a resource, which is an amplifier. Right, and this month we also went through a bunch of misconceptions around money. Right, like that, if you're spiritual, you don't need money. A bunch of BS like that, a bunch of dark force, misinformation. Because I have a goal to help millions of people. So because I have that goal and I can see a path there, the more money will come my way because I am working on behalf of Source right, because I am working on behalf of Source right and I'm working from a place of service to others and also fulfilling my purpose. So when you take the time to free yourself from these illusions which they are illusions of debt you don't just feel lighter, you actually become magnetic because you stop broadcasting guilt and you start broadcasting value, and that's when the wealth can start to flow in, as long as you also have the ingredients.
Speaker 1:Ps. But I would love to hear your thoughts on this and your aha moments. I love hearing from you guys and just sending you so much love. Bye. Thank you for listening to Unveiled. I always love hearing your takeaways, so please connect with me on Instagram that, angela, marie, christian, and feel free to tag me when you share it with your friends. Every single review matters and it helps me reach more people who want to improve this world. If you leave a review, let me know and I'll send you a little thank you gift. Any resources mentioned in the show will be linked in the show notes. Sending you all love Bye.