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Unveiled
Welcome to UNVEILED, the podcast designed for women ready to break free from the confines of societal expectations and rediscover their authentic selves.
I’m your host, Angela Marie Christian, Silicon Valley CFO turned intuitive, clinical hypnotherapist, and conscious mother.
If you've ever felt trapped by the roles imposed upon you—whether as a mother, a professional, or simply as a woman navigating life—this podcast offers a space to explore, heal, and transform. I was once deeply entrenched in the corporate world, checking all the boxes society told me to. But after realizing that true fulfillment comes from within, not from external achievements, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery that changed my life. Now, I’m here to guide you on your own path to empowerment.
We dive deep into conversations that strip away the layers of limiting beliefs and societal programming that have kept you from living a life of true sovereignty. Using neuroprogramming techniques such as ____, we explore how to rewire your mind, break old patterns, and embrace your innate power from within. These intimate conversations are more than just talks—they’re a catalyst for change, designed to energize and inspire you to take actionable steps toward your desires, goals, and dreams. Whether you’re a mother feeling unfulfilled, a single woman seeking more, or anyone looking to ignite that inner spark, UNVEILED is here to remind you of the incredible power you hold within. Join me weekly for conversations that feel like connecting with a close friend—conversations that will leave you inspired, empowered, and ready to unveil your true self.
Unveiled is a transformative space where women embark on a journey of self-discovery, mental wellness, and empowerment. If you’re struggling with anxiety, burnout, or feelings of overwhelm, this podcast is your guide to reclaiming your inner strength and breaking free from societal conditioning. As a mother, especially if you’re navigating life as a single mom, the pressure to meet every expectation can feel insurmountable. Here, we understand the weight of that burden, and we’re here to help you lift it.
Through intimate, connected conversations, we explore practical tools for managing anxiety, stress, and the exhaustion of burnout. You'll learn to challenge negative thoughts, dissolve limiting beliefs, and build unwavering self-confidence. We dive deep into mindfulness practices, cultivating self-love, and the power of neuroprogramming techniques to rewire your mindset. Each episode empowers you to embrace your true self, reclaim your sovereignty, and reignite the spark within that leads to a more fulfilled, purpose-driven life.
Whether you’re struggling to balance the demands of motherhood, work, and personal growth, or you’re on a path to healing and self-discovery, Unveiled offers a compassionate and supportive community. Here, we validate your experiences, nurture your resilience, and inspire you to take action toward your desires, goals, and dreams. Join us weekly to unveil your true self, transform your life, and step into your power.
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Your Little Black Book of Soul Contracts and Expired Relationships
Ever felt that nagging shame about your relationship history? That constant pull toward an ex despite knowing better? The mysterious pattern of attracting the same painful dynamics? There's a profound spiritual explanation that changes everything about how we view our romantic pasts.
Your dating history wasn't random chaos—it was divinely orchestrated by your higher self to teach you critical soul lessons. Each relationship, especially the painful ones, served as curriculum for your spiritual development.
I've moved from feeling shame about my past relationships to profound gratitude for every experience that shaped me. This shift comes from understanding that we're energetically connected to everyone we've been emotionally involved with through invisible cords that continue to affect our physical health, emotional wellbeing, and ability to move forward.
When you share connection with someone, you exchange soul fragments and establish energetic pathways for ongoing emotional exchange. This explains why you might suddenly think of an ex or feel their emotions years later—you're literally still connected. The feeling of needing "closure" is actually your soul wanting its pieces back. Traditional closure conversations rarely accomplish this, which is why energetic cord-cutting produces such profound healing.
Perhaps most revolutionary is understanding that relationships have soul contracts with expiration dates. Unless you've found a true soulmate (someone matching you in all four areas: emotional, spiritual, physical, and mental), your relationship was likely designed to last for a specific duration to teach specific lessons. When that contract expires, trying to force continuation creates misalignment and suffering. Society has conditioned us to view ended relationships as failures when they're actually completed soul agreements.
Ready to release these energetic binds and reclaim your wholeness? Soul reclamation work helps cut these cords, return soul fragments, and align you with the future you actually desire. Your exes weren't mistakes—they were messengers. Your "relationship resume" wasn't a series of failures but a carefully crafted curriculum for becoming who you're meant to be.
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Welcome to Unveiled, the podcast. I'm your host, angela Christian, and I help you with unveiling your true self by peeling away the layers that society placed on you. I do this with a combination of neuroscience, energetics and ancient spiritual wisdom. I went from underpaid and overworked in corporate America to launching a six-figure company that continues to grow. I went from toxic relationships to being happy and single for over a year as I worked and continue to work on becoming the best version of myself, and so much more. My greatest passion is to help women and mothers heal, transform and become the highest versions of themselves. As I continue to grow and expand my intuitive knowledge and unique wisdom, I'll be including you on my journey to millions, so let's get into it. Hello and welcome back to Unveiled.
Speaker 1:Today I have a fun episode for you that just popped in earlier this week and I'm just gonna go with it. I'm gonna see what's gonna come out here. So I was just thinking like how I used to feel so guilty and filled with shame and embarrassment around some of the relationships of my past, some of the things that happened, some of the things that I did, all of that. But what came to me when I was thinking about it was like my little black book was divinely orchestrated, like my higher self wanted me to experience every possible situation in a relationship dynamic. I wasn't just collecting lovers, I was collecting soul lessons, because I used to be a little ashamed of how many relationships I had. And if I did have a little black book, it would look very chaotic. And what's hilarious is I found this diary I had from high school and, oh my gosh, I, my teen was like when she was reading it was we're laughing hysterically because I was so freaking boy crazy. Like one week I'd be like, oh, I like this person, blah, blah, blah. And the next, like one week, I'd be like, oh, I like this person, blah, blah, blah. And the next week I'd be like, oh, I don't like that person anymore. And it was just so chaotic and it was just like I could not focus on a single person.
Speaker 1:But as I've been going through this process of cutting cords with people, because I definitely have more than the average person, I have more cords to cut than the average person Because I mean my first what I would call serious and I'm putting that in quotation marks, but serious relationship was when I was 15. And I was with him for about a year and a half. He was a great guy. Obviously I was 15. But, you know, I cheated on him. Then I went to someone else. Or then I was with the guy I cheated on him with and I cheated on him, went to the other guy Like it was a mess, you guys. I had no respect for them and no respect for myself, you know. But it was perfect. It was perfect just as it was, and like I wouldn't have been able to say that if I hadn't done a ton of healing. And now I can look back and I'm like, damn, that girl was crazy. Thank God I had a lot of action back then because I've been single for two years, so maybe it evens out a little bit, maybe.
Speaker 1:So what's really cool, though, as I've been doing these soul reclamation sessions for people, which is I am removing energetic arrows, energetic hooks, energetic cords, and if you don't know what I'm talking about, if this is your first episode, I would listen to the one before this where I talk a little bit more in depth. I'll link it in the show notes. But these are all things that not just hold us back in the past, but they can actually keep us from feeling, from healing, physically, emotionally, all of this. So, if you have, you know, last week I had a session with someone she had like seven energetic arrows, seven energetic hooks, like no wonder she wasn't feeling very energetic. There was like all of these people's energy just hooked into her. That wasn't even her cords, like she had six actual what I call umbilical negative energy exchange cords. So typically when I remove these for people like, their energy just increases. There are some warnings, though, and I was very silly last night and decided to do five cord cuttings on myself, so I did it earlier in the day. I'll explain this. I don't think I mentioned this. I think I mentioned maybe piece of this on the last podcast, but anyway, I was watching a movie with my son and this Beastie Boys song came on, and every time I would hear it because we watch Sonic a lot, it was on Sonic too.
Speaker 1:Every time I hear, I think of this guy from my past who we weren't like in a serious relationship, but we had that like toxic back and forth for many years, like we would go years without talking and then we would get drawn back together. I've had many of those kinds of situationships. He was a Wall Street guy and he invited me to go to LA once, but it was like a work event, so he flew there with his work friends. I had to fly on a plane by myself, even though we were like leaving the same day, like he didn't want me on the flight with his work friends, which should have been a red flag, right, I'm not really sure. I think they were doing things on the flight or something that I wouldn't have approved of. But so we get there and we go to this party one night and there's like the brass monkey song, so it's a different beastie boy song. Anyway, long story short, whenever I hear this other song I think of that night and like things just went really downhill that night and he didn't treat me with a lot of respect. But now I know from a higher perspective it was because I wasn't treating myself with respect. So people can only treat us the way we treat ourselves If we don't value ourselves in a certain area of life, if we don't value our physical body, if we don't value our passion, hobby and everybody has a passion hobby.
Speaker 1:I have two ballet or any kind of dance really, but ballet is very high, and then archery, which is interesting, but it's in our DNA so I can pull this from my clients. If you guys are in my membership, you can ask me to do this on a monthly check-in and I'll pull your two top passion hobbies for you because we need a passion hobby to be balanced. So we have the eight areas of life that I've talked about before and passion hobby tends to get ignored. But that's the one if you balance it and make sure you spend just a little bit of time. So, for example, I don't know anything about archery. I do have my first class coming up private session, but just going on YouTube and like watching a 10 minute video on archery or something that counts towards your passion hobby area of life.
Speaker 1:So we have to balance all eight areas of life, otherwise it will show up in our relationships and because our society right now is really big on just pointing fingers at the other person, labeling everyone as a narcissist, it takes away the power. You actually have to look within and now like, if there's someone any kind of like, friendship or anything, if I feel like they're not valuing me or something, I immediately I don't say anything to them, I go inwards and I'm like where am I not valuing myself right now? Oh, here's where I'm not valuing myself. I fix it, then everything's fine with them. I don't even have to say a word to them. It's like a whole different type of relationship dynamic. I wish. I wish I had known about back then, but I have a ton of examples for you guys, so so that's, that's a plus. I don't see it as just like random dating. It was like destiny in disguise on the dating scene. So I just want to relieve any kind of guilt, shame or embarrassment you have of your past, because it wasn't a mistake, it was divinely orchestrated. Your higher self handpicked every one of your relationships not to torture you but to teach you. So I had and I know I've talked about this before and I definitely talked about it in the last podcast, but it's just a great example I was dating a country music singer who you know we had fun together, but it was like it was pretty clear Like we weren't, it wasn't going to work Right.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I kept getting called back to him. I kept going back to him. Years would go by, I'd go back to him. So he signed a music deal with a large company and I know that's a whole different topic with dark force stuff, but he had energetic hooks in me and like some people could actually even see them People that have their third eye open, people that didn't even know each other would reach out and be like he has like hooks in you, and it was very clear when I was there that he did, because I would break out in rashes, I would get styes in my eyes, like my body was trying to protect me from him. It was very interesting. So my higher self knew like I needed to learn something from that and then, when it was time to no longer be involved with him, she made it very clear.
Speaker 1:So I've been talking to several people in my life who are going through the process of a divorce or about to start it, and I've noticed like they do carry guilt. They carry society's guilt for feeling like a failure. They're not, and so what I really want to explain here is I needed to have these experiences with people who were not my soulmates Thank God none of them were my soulmates, because I think I've mentioned this before as well but like there are four areas of life that we match up to with other people, so emotional, spiritual, physical and mental. If you're not a match in all four areas, you are not going to be a soulmate type of relationship. So what's really common is for people to meet a two out of four or a 50% match, which means they might match up physically right, they might fit really well together, they might have a good, passionate love life all of that. They might match up mentally where they love to talk about certain topics and they could talk for hours, right. So that can feel like a spiritual connection, but it's not. It can feel like, oh my gosh, like we are just meant to be, and you can get lost in those hormones. I see it all the time on Instagram when it's actually not a four out of four soulmate match. But we do need those experiences. But where society has led us wrong intentionally is making us feel like we're failures when we leave a relationship.
Speaker 1:Relationships have a contract. They have an expiration date unless you're with your soul mate or your soul compliment, which is a little different than your soulmate, because a soul compliment is like you and the opposite energy. I will not be with my soul compliment in this lifetime. I have bigger things to do. So I will be with my soulmate, one of my four out of four soulmates. We typically have, like, you know, a few, even up to like, uh, maybe six. So and then also, even with soulmates, your contract can expire sometimes if they're like, if you guys are at a certain level and then, let's say, you grow in consciousness like hundreds of points, hundreds of frequency points, right, you might no longer be a match for them spiritually. So then you fall to a three out of four, a 75% match. But if we just looked at the at this differently as a society and we knew this right, like, but the only way you'll know this is if you have an intuitive like me or somebody else, look in and say, ok, you are a two out of four match. Your contract expired two years ago or it's expiring in a year, whatever it might be. And right now, that's like the way that you would get your answer Right. But ideally, we would be living in a society where everyone has intuition and everyone would be kind of on the same page.
Speaker 1:And what's interesting is the very first place, back in 2018, I believe it was where I started learning intuition and energy work at a I call it my Harry Potter school, where my oldest daughter and I went and that's when I first started like tapping into my gifts and expanding them and being able to be able to read energy, to be able to do intuitive reads all of that my teacher there. He had told us the story and at the time I was just like what? But now it makes so much sense. He said that he met his ex-wife, but she was still a teacher there. They had met. She was a student of his and when they met, because they both had their intuition dialed in, they sat down, looked at their contract together. They saw that they were supposed to be together for seven years and that they were supposed to get divorced on this date. They honored that. That date came. They still loved each other and cared for each other, but they respected the plan that their higher self had in place for this lifetime.
Speaker 1:And I just remember being like wow, that, like it was hard for me to wrap my mind around that, but now I would be so on board with that because it's like I don't want to hold anyone back. I don't want anyone holding me back. And one of my friends just experienced a situation where she found out she had been held back three years, like her sole contract had expired three years ago. And most people are walking around with contracts that are expired and they're wondering why they're miserable in their relationships, right? But just imagine if you didn't have this pressure to stay with that person, if you were like, yeah, we're supposed to learn X, y, z over the next six years and then we're both supposed to move on. Now maybe I'm just really open-minded and I've been in this world for a long time. But if you are someone who's in a miserable relationship, it might make some sense to you. So if you're feeling like a full-on resistance, then there's definitely something here for you, because resistance just means it's like your higher self is really wanting you to hear this. So you're welcome.
Speaker 1:So one of the issues when you stay corded to someone and you don't clear these negative energetic emotional cords is that their energy stays with you. So this means the guy I was with at age 15, which actually I haven't done a soul, which I haven't done a soul reclamation, with another one to add to my list working my way through, which means I'm still corded to him, he's still corded to me, so we're still exchanging emotions. He has some of my soul pieces. I have some of his exchanging emotions. He has some of my soul pieces. I have some of his right. So you cannot heal physically, emotionally. All of this went to 100% until you get all of your soul pieces back.
Speaker 1:Now sometimes there are people in your life who you will keep courting into or who will court into you. There are ways around that that I teach in my soul reclamation session to you. There are ways around that that I teach in my soul reclamation session, but anytime. So, for example, this is kind of a funny example but it shows it's not just relationships. We can also court into our kids. They court into us, but it's usually the parent courting into the kid because we're like, curious, how are they doing, how are they feeling? Like we open our hearts up and we court in. It's actually better for you and the child if you do not cord in and these aren't the positive soul bonds. We don't touch those. We leave those in place. What I'm removing is just the negative emotional cords that do not help us at all. They actually hold us back.
Speaker 1:So over this last I don't know like week or so, I've been really interested in the Cassie and Diddy trial. So much so it's been. It was a little. It was taking up some of my time like reading through, and I didn't even realize until yesterday that I had courted in, or sorry, it was on Sunday. I realized that I courted into them, like into their situation, because I was curious, because I was trying to like see things from all these different perspectives and I was like why did I do that? And I know why it's because one of my very serious, uh, probably most painful relationship, uh, which means he loves me the most in the soul world, like outside of this world. He loves me dearly because the people who cause us the most pain in this life are actually people who love us so much on a soul level. He would do pretty horrific things to me and some of it like nothing close to the Cassie and Diddy, but like he would physically hurt me and and he would threaten to tell my family members certain things about me if I tried to leave. So like there were just pieces that I could kind of relate to with Cassie and uh, back in the day I had like a huge crush on Diddy. Oh, my God, I had a huge crush.
Speaker 1:So I realized I was corded into their situation, right, uh, reasons. And so yesterday I had realized I hadn't cut the cord yet from the Wall Street guy, the Beastie Boys song reminder. So I sat down I was like, okay, I'm going to cut the cord with him. I'm going to cut the cord with Diddy and Cassie. The situation I put them as a situation so we can cord into situations, people, all of that. Someone asked a great question what if they have passed on? Yes, you still have a cord with them, it's likely with a place or situation. So, yes, we would want to still cut that cord. And then there was another cord of a friend who is going through some stuff right now with his divorce, and I was like, too invested in the information. So, like I realized I had courted into them their situation. So, silly me, disconnected from five people.
Speaker 1:Last night, about two hours later, I'd forgotten about it, I felt great, huge, huge, like release of energy. But then two hours later I started getting the chills and I was like my skin hurt and I was like what is going on? I feel like I'm coming down with a flu. And I was talking to a friend and then it dawned on me. I was like, oh my gosh, it's the energy detox from releasing the cord from too many people. And then I woke up in the middle of the night with nausea, all this stuff. I'm fine Now.
Speaker 1:I did a bunch of healing work on myself, but there are there is a limit to how many people you can disconnect from, and I disconnected from too many people last night and it caused that energetic detox. That can happen. So that's why typically I only do two in a session. Very rarely will I disconnect you from three, because three like I even get an energy detox from and I do energy work every day. So you can imagine how, how fun it was last night after disconnecting from five people. So in my soul reclamation session someone asked about this too. So in that session I'm clearing your hooks, arrows and two negative energy cords.
Speaker 1:Okay, my 40 minute session, which is called the ultra activation. I am doing that Plus I'm cleaning up some of your past and then I'm aligning you with a more aligned future. So there's a little bit more energy healing work in that session. So I had someone last week. She had the 40 minute session with me. So she chose telegram distance session, which is just as powerful as being on zoom. I actually think the distance sessions are even more powerful because I'm just in my space. More powerful because I'm just in my space, totally connected and like it's deep work, whereas like zoom can sometimes be a little distracting for me anyway, like when there's another person on the call with you. Right, it's just it can be a little distracting. I mean they're both powerful, but if I had a choice I would rather do a distance healing on someone because I am so dialed in and I'm just focused on the energy and the session.
Speaker 1:So she booked a 40 minute session with me where we cleared two cords. Then I did a cleanup of her past stuff, because she wants a healthy relationship. So I had to clean up some of her past to align her with a better future for romantic relationships. I told her what was holding her back from calling in a healthy romantic relationship, what she can start working on. She immediately went and booked a soul reclamation session with me. So these work together and in fact I do recommend like the 40 minute session and a soul reclamation, because then you're getting at least four cords cut and you're getting me cleaning up energetically your past, which means you won't keep calling in the same type of people, same type of issues. All of that right, I close the loop on the pain, trauma of the past and align you for a better future. And the 75-minute call which I haven't even put on my website yet. I go even deeper. Where I actually look at you know, are there things going on in your body, what are some patterns you're not liking? Right now I tell you exactly what's causing that and then how to fix it. So those are the different ways to handle these things. But the soul reclamation is a great entryway because it's 20 minutes, you can choose telegram or zoom and you're going to feel like a shift in your energy.
Speaker 1:I intuit which ones to clear, like the biggest ones, and right now there are two spots left at $100. So my mentor told me to offer these as a micro healing session and to just do it in this incremental like rollout, which I really love. I've never done this before. So I first had five sessions at 75, which sold out. Now I have two left at $100, and then I'll go up to 125 and so on until I reach the full price hundred dollars and then I'll go up to 125 and so on until I reach the full price. So what you can start doing now is just writing out a little black book of your own, writing out in like a note Maybe you don't want someone to see it, but like, open your notes app on your phone and just start with like the heaviest, oldest cords and just figure out, like everybody. So I'm still working through some of the people because I I honestly like they were so long ago I forgot about them.
Speaker 1:But then what's interesting is like, as I clear. So yesterday I cleared those five that I mentioned another one popped in and this was a guy like I dated briefly, didn't? There were, there was some emotions there, nothing super heavy, but my higher self was just like, yeah, let's just clean this up. Let's just clean all of these up, right, let's clean up your little black book, because I want to be nice and clear of all of this for myself, for my physical healing, for my emotional healing, and also so that when my soulmate comes in, that I don't have all of this weighing me down right. Because how are we going to align with a healthy relationship if we have all of this negative emotion from the past constantly affecting us?
Speaker 1:And even if you are in a relationship, even more of a reason to clear all of this, and typically parents, partners and kids we might have to do the disconnect a few times before it becomes permanent. But, like I said, there are ways around that. And then, once you cut these cords and you call your soul pieces back, any need for closure goes away. It's like you're whole again and the only reason you have felt like you needed closure is because they literally have pieces of you and you need that back right? So, like your higher self is telling you like, yes, we need our soul pieces back, but the human self translates that as like we need closure, because the human self doesn't know how to translate that feeling. So just look at all of your like divine dating past that was all orchestrated by your higher self. List out the ones that you know you need to disconnect from and try to pull out.
Speaker 1:What each relationship taught you and this is a tip that will also help you in the financial area of life is when we carry the feeling like someone owes me, then what that does is it creates this debt in your electromagnetic field and you become a match for debt. So our relationship crap can come over and affect our financial situation, which actually happens a lot. So if you can look at each relationship and, like you know, for example, the country music singer, that whole relationship is the big lesson there was to trust my intuition. My intuition, my body, kept telling me to run right and I didn't trust that and then something ended up happening and that was very dangerous. Didn't trust that and then something ended up happening that was very dangerous and that was a huge lesson. So I was able to neutralize that by looking at what did that teach me? So everyone, all relationships are teaching moments, even the ones that were abusive for me, were teaching moments.
Speaker 1:I have nothing but love for all of my exes, all of the people in my past, because we agreed to do this. We agreed to play this like little human dance before we came into this world. So why would I be mad at them for simply playing the role that they had agreed to play before we came here, right? So this is all about awareness, not shame. There's nothing to be ashamed about, and if you do feel that heavy shame and guilt, I would recommend the 40 minute session, because then I clean up the past.
Speaker 1:I also have a program called unbonded, which is a instant access program that helps you kind of clear up the unconscious programming piece of it, but you'll still need the energetic cleanup, like I went through all of the nervous system regulation, all of the unconscious reprogramming. That healed me a lot but it did not do the full job because we also have to address the energetic components. So if you don't address the energetic components, it's never going to fully heal. Your exes weren't mistakes, they were messages. So we just need to unplug you from the past to align you with the future you actually desire, and that's what I love doing for people more than anything.
Speaker 1:So reach out if you want some help there, sending you all so much love Bye. Thank you for listening to Unveiled. I always love hearing your takeaways, so please connect with me on Instagram that Angela, marie, christian and feel free to tag me when you share it with your friends. Every single review matters and it helps me reach more people who want to improve this world. If you leave a review, let me know and I'll send you a little thank you gift. Any resources mentioned in the show will be linked in the show notes, sending you all love Bye.